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salam..
last entry for this month…..November raining season gitewww.

entry for today just to answer a long time tag from ‘mommy sapa tah’ kt fotopages.

Reason why me n hubby named that cute little 2.3kg baby girl born on 11.33am sept 15th 06, Aleeya Marissa.

hmm..sebenarnye sudah ngak brapa ingat.niway..(rasanya story nie xpenah citer kt sesape selain me n hubby kut).ceritanya bermula begini…

masa my pregnancy reached about 4months++..i had this intuition that the baby cm nk jadik baby girl jek w/pon dlm hati memberontak supaya dpt baby boy.actually xde la kesah sgt pon jantina baby..tp kalau dpt baby boy bolela jd abg yg akan protect adik2 nya nanti as in my family i’m the 2nd after my brother.apela punya teori…;P

so, masa 5months tu pi la scan…after dr did some measurements..tanyala dr yg gender baby??dr jwb ‘baby nie sgtla aktif..xreti dok diam..agaknye dia xmo mama n ayah tau jantina dia kut..hehe’

tp, dr cm terperasan ada ‘burger’ sign..which indicates of XX. but dr wasn’t sure.have to check again the next appointment.so..balikla dua org laki bini ni dgn perasaan yg quite frustated giteww..sbb xleh sure betul x tu baby girl.

dipendekkan cerita..sampaila 8months preggy pon masih xsure baby girl ke boy.tp dr suriati yg kt KMC tu ckp bb girl.masa tu dh x excited dgr sbb at that moment i was so worried since baby nyer AFI below normal range.baby xbole berenang gaya bebas dh.so, me & hubby unintentionally ignored that statement of hers.

tp in between 5-8months preggy tu ada la sedia nama.surprisingly, me n hubby xprepare lansg pon nama boy..nama baby girl pon hanya prepare one and only..Aleeya Marissa. maybe Allah dh tetapkn nama baby Aleeya Marissa..so, mama n ayah xde hati lnsg pon nk cari alternatif nama lain.

REASON BEHIND Aleeya Marissa..

Aleeya: nama nie both mama n ayah yg pilih.kalau xsilap maksudnya YANG TINGGI kut.lagipon masa tu crita bawang merah bawang putih tgh hot!!hihi…lgpon mama suka nama stat dr letter A…mana tau nnti besar bole dpt A dlm semua exam.

Marissa: nama ni mama yg cadangkn kt ayah.ekceli xde maksud kot…lgpon masa tu ayah dok tgh angau kt Marissa Cooper yg blakon lam citer the O.C..ayah ckp minah tu cun giler!!!!hopefully..nnti masa baby lahir, kalau girl plak bole jd secantik marissa cooper la kut.haha..

tada..alhamdilillah..masa hari kedua girl lahir..we both unofficially named her Aleeya Marissa..

now..Aleeya tgh membesar menjadi seorang anak dara yg sgt chomell…walaupon kekadang tu prangai cm jantan..haha..jgn mare…;))

salam..(harussss…)

waa..rajin gaks aku ni berblog ekk dua tiga menjak ni..hmm..byk sgt idea kut ataupun byk sgt masa tbuang (wpun keja menimbun xbuat lg..tolongggggg!!!!!).

uarrgghhh..nk citer gaks psl satu fenomena yg org pompuan jek paham.tiap2 bulan musti ada fenomena nie..

as for me,my angin kus kus dh berubah arah kut.;P
semenjak bulan posa aritu dh lain mcm jek.slalunye symptom2 biase2 jer..moody the whole week before or syahdu the whole week before, mild backpain, pelvic discomfort…tp sejak posa aritu timbul plak symptom yg sgt2la tidak best.
which is…one or two big size mouth ulcers starting a week before & lasted for about 2@3weeks.aduhsss…seksa sgt2..sampai kekadang tu xbule nk kunyah makanan pon. when it comes, i’ll be the most ’silent’ woman on earth.xbule ckp lnsg..bile bukak mulut jek sakit..

skang nie pun dh dpt rase ada seketul gunung berapi kt belah kiri..abisla aku kali tok!!!

to dearest ija…any advice in coping with the pain???maklumla..kau kan expert psl hal tok..hihi..jgn mare..

gambar selingan..muahhhhhsssss..cayang girl!!!!

20 THINGS THAT CHANGE WHEN YOU HAVE A BABY


Everyone warns you that having a baby will change your life. Sure, you’ll have less money (and sleep),

and a lot more responsibility. But when the centre of your universe shifts to your new baby, there’s much to celebrate too:


• You discover an inner strength you never realised you had.

definitely…am stronger n tougher now!!!

• You accept that the last 15 pregnancy pounds you can’t seem to shift are absolutely worth it.

hmmm…don think i have that 15 pregnancy pounds doh (maybe less..hihi)..niway..yup absolutely worth it!!!

• You don’t need a clock any more - your baby now sets your daily schedule.

i do still need a clock bcos stimes aleeya wake up bit late..bout 8am..lambat oo kalau nk pi keja..

• You respect and love your own parents in a new way.

this is definitely yes…i love my parents more since the early pregnancy..al maklumla hyperemesis gravidarum sokmo..

• Any pain your baby suffers feels much worse than your own.

yup…bgelen2 air mata ni kuar tiap kali girl demam….cian cayang mama ya!!

• You don’t mind going to bed at 9pm on a Friday night.

stimes mama yg tido lg awal dr girl..penat maa..

• Your heart breaks much more easily.

esp when it comes to ‘aleeya’s issue’…mcm paham2 jek prasaan girl ;((

• You discover how much there is to say about one little baby tooth.

yup yup..i even put the pic in frenster!!!haha

• You look at your baby in the mirror instead of yourself.

looking at those rounded eyes & curvy eye lashes, beautiful red lips, soft & shiny hair (eventho jarang..hihi), rosy cheeks that god have created perfectly for me n dear hubby..

• You’re no longer disgusted by babies’ bodily functions - in fact, you’re fascinated by them (hooray, a poo!)

i even thanked God if girl poo poo…alhamdulillah..slamat xsembelit..

• The sacrifices you thought you’d made to have a baby no longer seem that big a deal.

yup..all gone once aleeya was born..

• You respect your body … finally.
walaupon kurus sekeremepeng..namun bjaya melahirkan baby yg sehat dan kuat!!

• You realise that a baby’s comforter has magical powers!

yup..esp when i had  hard times during preggy, study & working!!

• You give parents with a screaming baby an "I-know-the-feeling" look, instead of a "Can’t-they-shut-him-up?" one.

i can accept if the baby still in babyhood..tp kalau udah jd toddler..kekadang geram gaks!!!haha

• You make time for one more baby hug and kiss, even if it means you’ll be late.

yup..sometimes late for work just to wait for girl to wake up..worth waiting wat??

• You realise that it’s possible to love a complete stranger.

i don think my girl is a stranger..girl is part of me & hubby..

• You learn that taking a shower is a luxury, never mind a trip to the hairdresser’s.

hmm….mcm betul jek..

• You finally get to speak to the shy neighbour in your street, because you’ve got a baby in your arms.

this is absolutely right…ada idea nk borak maa..kalau dulu diam jek..pastu senyum2 jek ;))

• You find that things that once seemed important are now meaningless.

haiya..nape la sumenye betull??????my  upper most priority is to make girl hepi maa..lain2 blakang kira..

~sekian~

salam..
kekadang heran nape la org nk stat berblogging????hmm…dlm situasi sy plak, berblogging utk mengekspresikan rasa gumbira,sonok,sedey dgn tpt sy mencari rezeki..dan sebagainya.
entry kali ini plak..untuk memohon ampun dr yg Maha Esa atas segala yg aku lakukan minggu ini..hmm..i said bad things (w/pun benda betul) about other ppl which is not my personality. i felt sorry for myself after all things i said about that particular person.so help me God!!i’m becoming one of them…
so, mintak2 la sesapa yg baca blog nie (kalau ade la yg sudi),tlgla nasihatkn sy nie..dedulu mase blajar dr darjah satu sampai final yr degree PDR, sy bukan org yg suke citer psl keburukan org lain..tp semenjak sy masuk KAHS ni..i’m becoming like KAHS ppl..haa..kutuk lg KAHS..kan dh jadi cm KAHS..masyaAllah..
sgt rindu masa2 kt UKM dlm PDR dulu..xpenah nk citer psl org.yg kitorang gals2 (ada 6org dara pingitan dlm PDR) tau cume,ape citer terbaru dlm wayang,karaoke walaupon suare sume xsedap, main2 interkom ngan boys PDR sampai berejam,dating dgn kekasih tercinta (dh jd laki pon),….pi  klinikal  naik bas turun bas,tido sampai x hengat dunia &  gossip2 tntg artis luar&dlm negara. takde satu pon sesi mengumpat yg hidup maupon yg telah tiada didunia..yus,bib,ecah,nani,susan,june,sieng chuo…rindula kt korang!!!!!
masuk dlm KAHS…life full misery,hatred,sadness,unfinished task,laziness (my fault laa) and so on…masuk KAHS dulu dgn harapan nk menambah ilmu esp dlm pelajaran dan keislaman..alih2 benda lain plak yg di adopt & adapt..apala nk jadi ngan sy nie???
hmm..semoga esok hari jauh lebey baik dr ini hari..esok2 sy kena meng’ exclude’kan diri dr gejala2 yg xbaper sehat ini..insyaAllah…be a good muslim,wife,mother,lecturer,employee…importantly a good ME!!!!!that’s for my personal satisfaction..x sukela jd minah kepo nie..huhu…

hmm..terasa nk spekong miri lah..lg2 bkaitan isu sensitif ni
sapa paham..bagusla..sapa yg x paham..nasibla..

IEEP was held in Legend Cherating..20minutes drive from our home. dok umah lg best!!tp apakan daya mok embak si kecik swimming..so tpaksala pegi..pegi ptg jumaat.check-in kol 4 lebey..pasya jln2 jap..then dh sik tahan nangga pool..terus masuk bilit tukar attire aleeya la..then mbak pelampong..then terus terjun dlm pool.lantak pi la org nk kata aku pakai short sleeves ka..duli pa aku!!kalau mandik pool pun dosa..bait diam lam gua jak..free from all dosa..

thenn..here comes the actual event..dinner bsama warga KAHS!!hmm..rame juak la nok dtg esp family2.ada sesi tuai rumah mok merik award kpd personal contributor since tuai umah panjai mok resign next year..antara yg dapat award..all deputy tuai rumah,  tuai jabatan,  all the kenjet2 n gambong2 (thank god they were not there..alhamdullillah!), some of the  tukang molah cimmata,n surprisingly..tuai rumah pun ada rasa btanggungjawab juak mok merik award ya kt kak sue n..actually kak sue n mmg deserve the penghargaan after all the hwork, tension, blame, sadness..then..ada lucky draw in which first time aku lucky..dapatla stand fan ngan tapak mangkok..then after tuai umah syahdu2..acara mlm ya pun abis..thank god..it’s finally over..

hubby ada molah komen n query about the award session..kenakla tuai molah sesi ya..pasya dgn intention org lain sik kecik ati..of cos la org nok sik dpt ya kecik ati..esp org nok terawal berada di KAHS…uncle zul..zafri..saiful..they also deserve some acknowlegdements..hmm..apa la tuai tok!niway..a tuai is owes a tuai..mark my word for once we will be a tuai..

okesla..to be cont..

hmm..
having to attend talk..talk..talk..quite tiring..
wat to do????have to accept la (famous phrase from hubby’s GM)
in order to fit n squeeze in..one need to sacrifice one’s ego..
which i am doin rite now..since july..
eventho i wasn’t a real me..
nevermind..time will come when they will see the real me..
like everybody usu said..SABAR ITU SEPARUH DARI IMAN..
betul ker??wat bout other half..hihi

by the way..regarding IEEP..will be held in Legend Hotel on 23rd n 24th NOV 07.
hubby n aleeya will be joining me.
hopefully..KAHS will not be a usual KAHS..
at least be nice for 2days fellas…for my hubby’s sake!!

salam to all..
yesterday was quite a memorable moment for me (alone with aleeya since ayah’s working). awal2 pg lg dh kejut org bgn..mama nie semenjak ada anak mmg liat sgt nk bgn pg..esp Subuh!!!cn u imagine??..during uni time i set my biological clock so that will bgn awl for subuh prayer.mama musti dh bgn dulu b4 jam henpon bunyi.
now..apa sudah jadik????astaghfirullah..masyaAllah…xtaula cek nk ckp camne..Subuh pon aleeya yg kejut..isk..isk..tupon matahari dh meninggi.
berbalik kpd citer asal,
aleeya usually wake-up quite early since almost each nite she sleeps early, around 9 to 9.30pm.so, nk xnk tpakse la join bgn sekali ngan dia.slalunya buat lengai2 dulu masa dia kacau2 tu..then tpakse gaks bgn bila aleeya dh ukk ukk..
so, aktiviti smlm kami dua beranak ialah..merewang rewang jek..lps aleeya bfast & mandi..mama pon pegila tgk jam pukul baper.waaa….br pukul 9pg.punyerla dh buat mcm2 aktiviti…alih2 baru pukul 9.hmm..i can already imagine at wat time we woke up..must be early meh..dhla nite b4 tido lmbt..(don think too far ya!!!!)
aktiviti slps mandi xde byk sgt..mama lipat baju yg dh collected for a week.aleeya plak..mengemas rak2 yg ada..not to forget dressing table dia dh kemas siap2 masa bgn pg.hihi..
pastu, mama pi masak utk lunch..skang nie mls dh nk buat sup for aleeya. sure dia pon boring mama n ibu asik masak sup jek.x thrill taste buds dia lnsg.hmm..so, smlm mama msk lamb curry (nk abiskn hirisan lamb yg tinggal sekeping jek) and lala+shrimp in sos ‘campak2′.hmm..sume jenis sos ada!!mama ni saja carik penyakit..tgh2 suap aleeya mamam tu, tpikirla jugak..’aku nie saje nk carik psl bg anak mamam seafood.mintak2 la dia x allergic to seafood.lgpon b4 ni dh penah suap dia mamam lala..surprisingly aleeya loves lala more than udang.maybe sbb lala tu lembut kot..hhmmm..tawakkal jer la’
then, so far no sign of any allergic reaction.
then after lunch..mama udah fening2 nie..slalunye aleeya will merengek nk tido around 11/12 o’clock.tp, aleeya seems so hepi that she forgot her zzzz time kut.last-last kami berdua baring santai2 jek dpn tv.mama tgk melodi n aleeya once in a while join gelak sesame.
seperti yg telah dicatatkn dlm title blog.aleeya dh ada hobby baru plak.sker cubit org.actually dia bukan cubit tp cubit+korek..sakitnye la my whole body.dia sker tgk reaction muka mama in pain (exaggerate jek tu..haha).
at last dear aleeya slept at 2pm until 5pm.bgn tido, merajuk sakan sbb mama tinggal dia pi dapur..so, nk pujuk kena bwk dia main kejar2 kt porch..last2 buat aleeya join venture skali basuh keta mama (yg dh dekat 2bulan x basuh..bau hapak satu keta).it was a very hepi moment since aleeya are obsessed with hose,water,tyres,motorcycle ayah,n not to forget her sandals.sampaila…ayah balik keja around 7pm..ayah pon tlg skali gak..cayang ayah!!!!
hmm…luvs aleeya more n more each day passing by!!!

rajin aleeya rajin..rajinla membasuh..bila besar nnti bole tlg mama..haha

salam all..
last Tuesday Aleeya was admitted to KSH due to high fever (which body temp kept fluctuating mainly during night time) and allergic reaction (guess so..) in which her lips, dorsal part of both hands & feet was swelling.
at first her babysitter (kak nor)called me to asked about swelling on her hand.i thought it was just normal swelling due to insect bite. then during lunch time received another call from kak nor telling that aleeya had a fever & the ‘fishy’ part is swollen upper lips. ( u would not reckon her if u see her in jolie’s lip!!!)
straight away me n hubby brought aleeya to her panel pead clinic in jln beserah.
dr did a usual check-up with aleeya crying loudly & uncontrollably.then dr decided to refer her to KSH for further investigation with a conclusion of suspected Kawasaki disease. i shocked when i heard the word disease alone!!!
then,went to KSH to her usual pead specialist..the very da lovely dr siti.dr siti also diagnosed of suspected Kawasaki disease. the word suspected means that it’s not concluded as Kawasaki disease until thorough lab test is done (urine test,blood test,fecal test etc) with a +ve result.
so, the days that she was in the hospital indeed were not a smooth journey for us.her temp keeps fluctuating and only decrease to normal body temp with the help of medicine & i.v fluid. we were so worried..and i prayed with all of my heart+sympathy+empathy+love that my baby will get better.
alhamdulillah..her fever was almost gone by friday and she was discharged on saturday.thanx to all that cares & prays for her!!!!result showed no evidence of any diseasea, only mild pneumonia..walla..been quite strong mama’s lil’ girl aight???
other topic..
her latest development was..hmm..anak mama dh reti merajuk!!!nooo!!!hopefully this is for temporary only..stakat nie hampir tiap hari ade jek nk majuk..x boleh silap sikit..musti nk nerap atas lantai sambil hempas2 kaki & tgn kt lantai..dunno where on earth she got this brilliant idea of rebellion.probably got from that tiny tiny gen of her mom????hmm..harap2 those tiny gen hilang becomes recessive cepat2 la..hihi..
niway..aleeya is 14months old today!!anak mama getting bigger n wiser ya!!!
to  dear aleeya marissa,
mama n ayah love u very much..with all of our purest hearts n souls (the jahat one x masuk quota ekk..hihi).we pray that u’ll be bigger,stronger,wiser,lovelier,prettier,cheekier, nottier in a good way lah and all the best words can desribe u in the future..and most of all will be an obedient daughter to us  also good servant to Allah!!
hihi..just to remind the reader (if there’s any la..) last thursday 8nov was my besday!! (ayat enterprem jek ni)

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